A talk of Birds and Bees from a father to his daughter

A father was worried about his daughter that is growing up by the years and decided to sit his daughter down and give her a talk that he thought his daughter is ready to receive.

Father:
Well, it's about time that I talk about this sophisticated topic with you. This may make you feel rather uncomfortable, but I rather be the one to tell you than allowing you to learn through the painful experiences you might encounter without this knowledge I'm just about to share with you. Sex to most is just an activity where two become rather intimate, people seek it for pleasure, fun, and assurance of love. But, sex is not as simple as just an activity done between couples, it is in fact an exchange of soul. Either side will give half of what he/she have in return for the other half of his/her partner, it is the bonding of the soul. This is why people tend to refer to sex as becoming one with their partner and the term soul mate used. Once the exchange is made, either side will always be able to feel what each other feels. Partners will realise that, as they love each other and get closer, the more they are able to understand each other. Sex is an oath between couples that they will love and protect each other forever and in other words nourish each others soul with love. However if sex is done out of marriage, more often than not the couple leaves each other with the broken promise of love and protect. Though the promise is broken but the process is irreversible, the exchange is made. It leaves either side torn from his/her own soul not nourished with love. The couple forever feel this emptiness within themselves, the half of the soul they lost, forever hurt by the tear of their soul. 

Many times, people without this knowledge that are seeking fun, experience or love end up having multiple partners. This you can imagine their soul keep halving with whatever that is left, the result is the extreme sense of lost, emptiness, and the lack of the identity of self.

Most that have come to know of this knowledge promise themselves or others that they will only have sex with the one they marry. However, again, more often than not, they fail to keep this promise. The reasons varies, some is because they were drunk, some were raped, some believe that the boy/girl they are dating is going to be the one they marry, some were just impatient. Whether the reason is valid or not, whether protection is worn, the result is all the same, the bond is made and nothing can be changed.

Let's not talk about the reasons that are rare, lets talk about the reason that most lose their virginity, relationship. Different people enter a relationship with a different reason, some wants to try something new, some wants to be loved, some sadly happens most with guys, was for sex. At the early stage of most guy's life, sex is a thrill, excitement and something to boost their ego. The more partners they commit the act with, the more proud they become, they tend to boast about their experiences with each other when no female is around. While these guys don't feel as much as most girls do, they too suffer the lost of their halve or halves of their soul. Just that most girl feel it more, and can sometimes spend nights crying over what they have lost. Only some guys start to feel the lost and emptiness at the later stage of their life. 

The thought of what these guys are thinking are rather disgusting, you might wonder how these guys manage to seal the deal with so many girls. You might start thinking that these girls are just cheap or stupid or both. But no, these girls are very much the same as most girls, all they wanted were a guy to love them like how they first love him. What they don't know is that, these guys are not ready to love anyone at all, they might keep promising that they will love the girl they date forever. But, one experienced enough will know that the same promise is present in all the uncountable numbers of relationship that all end up failed leaving permanent hurt to both parties. Sometimes these guys are more monstrous, they lie, cheat, or force their way through with the many tricks up their sleeve, all for the sake of getting the girl on their bed. No love is ever involved in any of these, all they seek is the most prized winning they seek, sex.

Therefore, if most are not ready to seal the deal, then sex should never be involved before marriage. Because let's not forget, your soul is involved in this short moment of pleasure. Therefore, no matter how sure you are, before you take the oath on the altar to love your wife/husband forever, do not seal the deal. Not even after engagement or registration, anything can change before the oath is made. Protect your soul, do not let anyone have the chance to take it from you, till the oath is made on the altar. Take precautions, keep your guard up, never let your complacency be your regret for life.